Wife driving the passanger gets the gate (that would be me )
Wife is the passanger the driver gets the gate (again that would be me)
Take one of the kids along neither the driver or the passanger have to get the gate.
Zack, Zack, Zack, once you find the one, I have the feeling she will be driving the truck, and you will be opening gates in no time.
I know my wife can hook the trailer load the calves and drive from one coast to the next with no problems, just as long as she can go forward the whole time, if she has to back the trailer it gets complicated (especially if I try to help her)