This thing is gonna drive me nuts, don't quite know what is going on. I can do anything with this calf but when my 9 yr old (who will be showing him) comes within eye sight he bolts. I had to tie him up to my homemade walker last night and i held one lead and she another and got him to walk with her, but he always seemed on red alert, kept looking at me like "is this o.k.". I don't know why he does it, she has been helping me with the feeding in the evening, cleaning the stall and has been bringing her homework to the barn to do while I work around the barn in the evenings, she and her brothers have even been playing in the barn climbing up and down in his stall and running around him. He just doesn't seem comfortable with her. She has been brushing him in the chute and has been working with him in the chute but he still seems nervous around her. Do they make a calmative I could give him to help calm him down around her? Or does she just need to keep working with him?