I had a steer when I was a junior in high school that I keep from getting away from me. He got away from me every single time I had him out and I had been showing for several years at that time. My dad made me a halter with a round metal nose piece and then a chain going back up behind his ears and around, the lead conected on top of the nose piece and when you pulled it put pressure on his lower jaw. It wasn't hard on him but he knew I was in control. I showed him with it on and was grand champ market steer in our county. Sometimes you have to do what makes it work. I thought that steer was going to end up killing me before we made that halter but I never had any problems after that.